Monday, May 25, 2026

The Pond

At the water’s edge, a weathered sign reads “No Fishing,” accompanied by a stark warning: “ALLIGATORS.” This warning alone deters most people, except for the young, reckless, or foolish. Day after day, I find myself irresistibly drawn to this scene, gazing out over the tranquil waters, captivated by the mysteries concealed beneath their surface.


The glassy reflection shatters as rings break, sparking my curiosity. Are they the work of dragonflies or damselflies, gracefully skimming the surface? Perhaps fish, curious and unseen, are the culprits? Occasionally, heads rise and dip again—turtles, I assume—while the unmistakable snout of an alligator glides silently from one shaded resting place to another.


Life flourishes at the water’s edge. A family of ducks cautiously navigates between tangled hiding spots, while sandhill cranes make their way along the shallows, their piercing calls echoing through the air. In the reeds, a lone heron patiently waits, poised and still, ready to seize fish, snake, or anything else that promises a meal. Here, danger and beauty coexist in perfect stillness, a wild ballet that unfolds regardless of whether anyone is observing.

I’ve spent many a sunrise gazing at that pond. It wasn’t exactly what I envisioned for my retirement, especially the no-fishing rule. However, I’ve learned to find joy in what I have. I spent many years exploring salt marshes and camping on the shores of trout ponds. I do miss those experiences, but I’ve come to appreciate the present moment and the beauty that surrounds me. 


Friday, May 22, 2026

America’s Love Affair with… Buying Stuff We Don’t Need

America’s greatest love story isn’t between Romeo and Juliet—it’s between us and our shopping carts. From the moment we can hum a jingle, we’re recruited into the cult of “limited-time offers.” I still remember that Camel cigarette ad proudly declaring, “I’d walk a mile for a Camel.” I couldn’t walk a block without my mom dragging me into a store for a “can’t miss sale” on decorative throw pillows we didn’t need.

Fast-forward to the internet era, and we’ve evolved from innocent TV jingle victims to professional click-happy shopaholics. I once clicked an ad for a “smart banana peeler” at 3 a.m.—and bought it. Why? Because the ad told me I deserved the life-changing experience of peeling fruit like a high-tech ninja.

Our national pastime isn’t baseball; it’s panic-buying stuff we swear is an “investment.” The cherry on top? We fund our spree with credit cards, then refinance our houses to pay off those cards, and then somehow end up buying more stuff to celebrate paying off those cards. It’s like a hamster wheel powered by impulse buys and two-day shipping.


We aren’t hooked on drugs—we’re addicted to the dopamine hit of a package arriving. And as long as there’s a “limited edition glow-in-the-dark garden gnome” out there, America’s love affair with buying things we don’t need will remain stronger than ever.